I couldn’t be happier

I was born without a disability. When I was four, complications after having the flu left me with minor cerebral palsy and a really low immune system. But apart from a slight lisp and getting tired easily, you couldn’t really tell.

However, at the age of seven, I caught glandular fever. With my low immune system it got very serious very quickly and I became like a newborn, unable to walk and talk. It took me a while to recover physically, and it was even more difficult emotionally. I was more aware of my differences, and I was bullied. But I recovered and began walking and talking again.

I was still disabled but very capable. I represented Wales in Guiding, I was an active member of St. John’s Ambulance, and I had a great social life. 

Moving to Danybryn

When I was 25 I became seriously ill again. I got sepsis and I was very very unwell. I died five times! I remember my mum asking me if I was in there to squeeze her hand; the doctors wanted to let me go. But I made it through, and as part of my recovery I moved into Leonard Cheshire’s Danybryn care home, near Cardiff.

When I first moved in, I found it quite difficult. I was fiercely independent and had always managed to find my own way of doing things. But my mobility had really deteriorated and I needed support to achieve my dream of being able to walk again.

A short while before I moved in, thanks to supporters just like you, Danybryn were able to buy a specialist exercise bike. I was so happy when I discovered the bike, and I began to realise my dream of walking again could be possible.

Becoming more mobile

Strengthening my legs and arms was a big start to me being on my own two feet. I knew my legs would start working again, it was just a matter of time. I’m now able to walk with my frame 90% of the time at home.

Becoming more mobile has helped me to achieve my ultimate goal – to live in my own home independently. I’ve now moved to an independent living facility and couldn’t be happier. I can do so much more. I love having my own home, my own kitchen and my own space – it’s really important to me. I have had a wonderful, full life so far. 

I’m happy with everything.